Family Git Together

“Come Let us worship and bow down, let us kneel before the Lord our God our Maker, For He is our God, and we are the people of His pasture and sheep of His Hand.” Psalm 95:6-7
I just bumped into a dear lady that is part of our church family. I asked her how her day was going, and she told me. It wasn’t going great. She was kind of having a rough day, so we sat down and talked about it. As she spoke, I was trying to think of some way that I could encourage her, until I realized I didn’t have to. She went on to tell me, how the Lord was seeing her through, and while I had stopped to help her, she ended up helping me. This family is a beautiful thing.
It’s beautiful but it’s still a family. Like most families this one has its share of ups and downs. We all have plenty of stuff on our plate, plenty of our own struggles to face. Sometimes when we come to meet together it’s hard to put all of that stuff aside. Sometimes its hard to even come to meet together at all because of all of the stuff. When I happened upon the sister I mentioned both of us were doing other things, yet the Spirit made those few minutes to encourage each other, very sweet.
When your family gathers around the dinner table, to talk about the day, undoubtedly you find great comfort in knowing you have a home to come to where you can share your burdens. When the people of God gather to feast on His Word, we find comfort in belonging. We find peace in knowing that wherever we have been that week, and whatever we have gone through, we get to come home at the end. That is how the family of God works. We come to care, and be cared for, by people that we love, who also love us. I want to plead with you to come care, and be cared for, by a family who needs to give, and receive love.
Often Satan whispers in our ear that our church gatherings are just a place to get stuff. We gather to have our needs met, and then dive back into the rat race. This is not what Jesus describes for the children of Light, who walk in His rest. He gives something much higher, and more precious to us than a place to come have our selfishness fed. He gives us a family. A place to come knowing we are loved, but also knowing there are others in need of love. A place where we have a niche as Father, Mother, Sister, Brother, or even crazy aunt Ethel. The feast is empty and lacking if even one can’t make it. We need you, because “we” aren’t a “we” without you. Your momma doesn’t take any excuses when she cooked a roast for you to eat. “Come on home honey, we don’t care it the kids are noisy, we don’t care if your coming straight from work, we don’t care if you missed last time, just git yourself here.”
Its time for a family ‘git together, Sunday Morning (Call your brother and sister and make sure they git here too)

Love Ben

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Danvers Statement on Biblical Manhood and Womanhood

The Danvers Statement on Biblical Manhood and Womanhood
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In December, 1987, the newly-formed Council on Biblical Manhood and Womanhood met in Danvers, Massachusetts, to compose the Danvers Statement on Biblical Manhood and Womanhood. Prior to the listing of the actual affirmations that comprise the Danvers Statement, we have included a section detailing contemporary developments that serve as the rationale for these affirmations. We offer this statement to the evangelical world, knowing that it will stimulate healthy discussion, hoping that it will gain widespread assent.

Rationale | Affirmations
Rationale

We have been moved in our purpose by the following contemporary developments which we observe with deep concern:

1. The widespread uncertainty and confusion in our culture regarding the complementary differences between masculinity and femininity;
2. the tragic effects of this confusion in unraveling the fabric of marriage woven by God out of the beautiful and diverse strands of manhood and womanhood;
3. the increasing promotion given to feminist egalitarianism with accompanying distortions or neglect of the glad harmony portrayed in Scripture between the loving, humble leadership of redeemed husbands and the intelligent, willing support of that leadership by redeemed wives;
4. the widespread ambivalence regarding the values of motherhood, vocational homemaking, and the many ministries historically performed by women;
5. the growing claims of legitimacy for sexual relationships which have Biblically and historically been considered illicit or perverse, and the increase in pornographic portrayal of human sexuality;
6. the upsurge of physical and emotional abuse in the family;
7. the emergence of roles for men and women in church leadership that do not conform to Biblical teaching but backfire in the crippling of Biblically faithful witness;
8. the increasing prevalence and acceptance of hermeneutical oddities devised to reinterpret apparently plain meanings of Biblical texts;
9. the consequent threat to Biblical authority as the clarity of Scripture is jeopardized and the accessibility of its meaning to ordinary people is withdrawn into the restricted realm of technical ingenuity;
10. and behind all this the apparent accommodation of some within the church to the spirit of the age at the expense of winsome, radical Biblical authenticity which in the power of the Holy Spirit may reform rather than reflect our ailing culture.

Affirmations

Based on our understanding of Biblical teachings, we affirm the following:

1. Both Adam and Eve were created in God’s image, equal before God as persons and distinct in their manhood and womanhood (Gen 1:26-27, 2:18).
2. Distinctions in masculine and feminine roles are ordained by God as part of the created order, and should find an echo in every human heart (Gen 2:18, 21-24; 1 Cor 11:7-9; 1 Tim 2:12-14).
3. Adam’s headship in marriage was established by God before the Fall, and was not a result of sin (Gen 2:16-18, 21-24, 3:1-13; 1 Cor 11:7-9).
4. The Fall introduced distortions into the relationships between men and women (Gen 3:1-7, 12, 16).
* In the home, the husband’s loving, humble headship tends to be replaced by domination or passivity; the wife’s intelligent, willing submission tends to be replaced by usurpation or servility.
* In the church, sin inclines men toward a worldly love of power or an abdication of spiritual responsibility, and inclines women to resist limitations on their roles or to neglect the use of their gifts in appropriate ministries.
5. The Old Testament, as well as the New Testament, manifests the equally high value and dignity which God attached to the roles of both men and women (Gen 1:26-27, 2:18; Gal 3:28). Both Old and New Testaments also affirm the principle of male headship in the family and in the covenant community (Gen 2:18; Eph 5:21-33; Col 3:18-19; 1 Tim 2:11-15).
6. Redemption in Christ aims at removing the distortions introduced by the curse.
* In the family, husbands should forsake harsh or selfish leadership and grow in love and care for their wives; wives should forsake resistance to their husbands’ authority and grow in willing, joyful submission to their husbands’ leadership (Eph 5:21-33; Col 3:18-19; Tit 2:3-5; 1 Pet 3:1-7).
* In the church, redemption in Christ gives men and women an equal share in the blessings of salvation; nevertheless, some governing and teaching roles within the church are restricted to men (Gal 3:28; 1 Cor 11:2-16; 1 Tim 2:11-15).
7. In all of life Christ is the supreme authority and guide for men and women, so that no earthly submission-domestic, religious, or civil-ever implies a mandate to follow a human authority into sin (Dan 3:10-18; Acts 4:19-20, 5:27-29; 1 Pet 3:1-2).
8. In both men and women a heartfelt sense of call to ministry should never be used to set aside Biblical criteria for particular ministries (1 Tim 2:11-15, 3:1-13; Tit 1:5-9). Rather, Biblical teaching should remain the authority for testing our subjective discernment of God’s will.
9. With half the world’s population outside the reach of indigenous evangelism; with countless other lost people in those societies that have heard the gospel; with the stresses and miseries of sickness, malnutrition, homelessness, illiteracy, ignorance, aging, addiction, crime, incarceration, neuroses, and loneliness, no man or woman who feels a passion from God to make His grace known in word and deed need ever live without a fulfilling ministry for the glory of Christ and the good of this fallen world (1 Cor 12:7-21).
10. We are convinced that a denial or neglect of these principles will lead to increasingly destructive consequences in our families, our churches, and the culture at large.

We grant permission and encourage interested persons to use, reproduce, and distribute the Danvers Statement. Printed copies of a brochure are available for a small fee. Visit the CBMW Store or contact us to place an order.

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Angel Food Ministries

It is with deep regret and and a heavy heart that we have decided to discontinue offering Angel Food Ministries at FBC-Red Bud.  This decision was made due to a number of factors, but was necessary for us to continue to help needy people in our community.

The Angel Food home office in Georgia discontinued the September menu and distribution, so all orders that have been taken for September will be refunded.  If you sent an order by mail, online or in person, you will receive your refund by mail from FBC-Red Bud.  If you have ordered online, then you will be refunded by AFM-Georgia.

We wish to thank everyone that was involved and supported our ministry for the last 5 years.  We had 56 wonderful distribution days and made many friends that we will not forget.

Please do not think that FBC-Red Bud is out of the food ministry completely.  We are in the process of evaluating and implementing a new food ministry that we hope will provide much needed food to the community at large.

Once again, thank you all for your support and encouragement and God bless!

Tim Byrnes, AFM Host Site Director

New Youth Connect!

 


Attention all youth 7th-12th grades:

Join us on Wednesday nights in the youth room at the new church building from 6:30pm to 8pm for “YOUTH CONNECT”. The focus of this gathering time is to deepen our connection with Christ, while also connecting more deeply with other youth and other members of the church body. The first half hour of CONNECT will be snack & hang-out time. The following hour from 7-8pm will include a time of fellowship and Bible study. Each week various members of our church body will be invited to come and allow us to get to know them better by sharing their testimonies, as well as any wisdom & encouragement they might have to offer from life experiences. In turn, each week a youth member will also be encouraged to share a little about themselves with our guests & the rest of the group. The time of study and discussion following this will include digging deeper into the Sunday school lesson from the previous Sunday and/or focused study on other topics of interest in relation to the Bible. Bring friends & join the fun & fellowship!

 

First Place Registration Now Open!

First Place
Wednesday 6:30-8:00pm
Grades K-6
(Runs concurrent with school year)

“And he is the head of the body, the church. He is the beginning, the firstborn from the dead, that in everything he might be preeminent.”

Colossians 1:18 (ESV)

First Place is FBC-Red Bud’s newest ministry. It is designed for children K-6th grade. At First Place, your child will receive solid Biblical instruction in order that they may come to appreciate God and His Word. Our ultimate goal is to bring glory to God by sharing the Gospel of Christ with the children in the hopes that they will come to know Jesus as their Lord and Savior (that He may be first place in their lives). First Place is designed to share the Gospel through the world of sports. We understand that sports are an important part of our culture. At First Place, we want to foster positive sports traits such as teamwork and sportsmanship. In addition, we want to teach children the basic skills of a particular sport. It gives children, boys and girls, an opportunity to participate in a sport of their interest. Regardless of talent level, all children will receive equal time to develop their skills and to play in games. Even if your child has never shown an interest in sports before, we believe that they will enjoy First Place. Everyone plays, everyone is given positive encouragement, and everyone learns how to compete with a Christian attitude. Finally, we wish to reach out to the parents and families of the children participating in First Place in order to equip them to disciple their sons and daughters at home. First Place is a ministry for the entire family. Our initial sport will be basketball and will begin on Wednesday nights each week from 6:30-8:00 p.m.

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